FutureMrsKeepUp wrote:

That would be a hell.to.the.NO! FH has some exes that thoroughly confuse me! I will def have to have shorts and a beater under my dress if any of them heffas are in attendance! Lord, and his sons' mother? I'd be in jail in my dress! Then again I have some thumpers in my family and they would handle it before I could even turn around!

I can dig that one!!! My DH's exes are from another planet also ...to the point where I stopped wondering about them ...and now I wonder about him and then wonder where I fit in at!

On the other hand at my first wedding (I was 19) my ex came ...no problems.

Musikana wrote:

Below is a Cautionary Tale from this weekend:

I was coming out my favorite restaurant, walking to my car and spotted a familiar face crossing the street. It was a friend from junior high, i did a double take and he came over to me. I was like, "Wassup, Andre! It's been forever! How are you?!" the whole long-time-no-see bit. We hug, real platonic-like right? As i pull away he looks me dead in the eye and says, "I'm still in love with you". I haven't seen this negro in 10 years and we nehhh-ver dated!

I just traveled forward in time and imagined that same scenario in the receiving line at my wedding. Aint gon be no undercover stalkers AT MY WEDDING!!!!!

I don't know how I missed this thread! Just send them an annoucement after the fact if you are friendly, but estranged. If you left on bad terms, don't sweat it. I had EVERY Ex call me within the last week of my wedding, a couple on the actual day and one on the day I got back from my honeymoon. I don't think my hubby needed to see my trail of tears at our wedding. No one's new love does. NEVER a cool idea I think.

No EX'S and definitely not his Baby Mama...She can see pics of her baby after the wedding. His BM is truely a GHETTO Drama Queen. My Wedding day will be a Happy and elegant event if she is there, you will see me on CNN...LMBO!!!

Yes Diva T!!! The very same. I can't forgive cheating and stay with the cheater. For me to be able to move on and heal, at the advice of our pastor, I had to forgive and forgive truly and honestly. I don't hold any grudges either. We started out as friends and along the way became best-friends, lovers and engaged. We share a business together even.

I'm in a different place right now and though some subject is taboo within our friendship, we're still friends though, and we're able to be honest with one another.

ooh ladies this is a very nice threat co this same question have been going through my head over and over again , i was wondering if weather i shud inite him or not , he was a jerk and treated me really bad very abusive that i almost lost al of my self esteem ,soo i was just planning on inviting him just to show him how lucky i was to leave his punk **s and that i got a man 100 times beter than him in everyway , but now i think its not worth it , we not close but he sends me stupid emails all the time tryin to check how far i am in life relationship wise cos he used to tell me no one will love me as much as he did wich was all crab cos he was very abusive, insecure and bossy like i was his lil property .

Olga, it's nice to see you again. Where've you been? Anywhoo, in your case, I wouldn't invite him. Be that you've moved on with someone 100x better, you've shown his abusive a** that you're treated like the true princess that are, so Diva, don't invite his butt. It's not worth the postage stamp.

HELL NO! I won't invite my ex since he still calls and tells me that he is going to take me back away from my FH. He is really stupid. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years and you never felt the need to tell me that you were married? He called and actually had the nerve to tell me that I couldn't get marrie because he "is getting a divorce now from her so that we can be together". I told him to do us all a favor and leave me alone. As for his ex's he said that he wants to invite his ex girlfriend, that pinned a baby on him that is not his, well he said he wanted her to come to see that we were happy and he would never go back to her and I again said HELL NO!

Do you have the ability to block phone numbers? That is what I do. I ask you not to call once and after that it is straight to voice mail. The ex files for me are closed! I have never felt freer. lol

that is great mycenae... good for you!

future_mrs_taylor wrote:

HELL NO! I won't invite my ex since he still calls and tells me that he is going to take me back away from my FH. He is really stupid. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years and you never felt the need to tell me that you were married? He called and actually had the nerve to tell me that I couldn't get marrie because he "is getting a divorce now from her so that we can be together". I told him to do us all a favor and leave me alone. As for his ex's he said that he wants to invite his ex girlfriend, that pinned a baby on him that is not his, well he said he wanted her to come to see that we were happy and he would never go back to her and I again said HELL NO!

Good for you, Future_Mrs_Taylor. Your ex sounds like a real game player and very selfish. I'm glad you found your happiness with a real man. He probably wants to show-off a little, but he needs to stop thinking about inviting his ex to your wedding.

Wow. I am hoping that my father does not try to come I thought of posting someone at the door for that reason. I am glad that in your case love prevailed. lol.

NOPE,NO EX.
I forgot about them a long time ago. Neither one of them can compare to FH. I wouldn't disrespect him in that way.