I'm a little late, but my DH and his groomsen went to Atlanta to his cousins birthday party. I later found out when they got back that his cousin did (supposedly jokingly) offer to take him to one of those "spas" where they give you a "happy ending." He didn't go there, but they did go to a strip club anyways, but all the guys reported to not have THAT much fun. For some reason, I wasn't bothered, because I know he was just letting his cousin take him out. I think he had more fun at the birthday party because he was able to meet some football players and they were able to hang out and talk.

As far as the stip club, I would prefer that he didn't go because it is first of all a waste of $$ (which FH refuses to spend on other girls), and second of all he said he would rather spend $$$ on me for a shopping spree, plus I can do a strip show better than some other chick can!
I beleive its our job to be our man's fantasy, and I have been able to do that well thankyouverymuch

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Bumblebeekee wrote:

I beleive its our job to be our man's fantasy, and I have been able to do that well thankyouverymuch

THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN' ABOUT!! I can roll with the best of them...believe that!....lol

Hey Ladies!!!!!!! As a guy who had a bachlor party with all the strippers....I know first hand what goes on and its all innocent fun. But here's an idea. I am the co-owner of GameOn Entertainment, a console gaming company (you know playstayion and x-box..that game that your man plays for hours at a time) We are extending our services to bachelor parties. What do you think? We set up 10 tvs with all of the best games for the pre-entertainment festivities. It gives them more to do than just drool over women with fake breast all night. If interested email gameonentertainm@bellsouth.net.

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We both had Bachelor/ Bachelorette parties...I think they're important & make the day more special

I look at the whole thing as entertainment. I feel that if your man is going to go out there and cheat then that's what he is going to do. I dont think that by having a stripper he will necessarily cheat. I plan on enjoying my party and I hope he enjoys his. I trust that he will respect me and our relationship.

I agree with you Wifey. When FH and I 1st met he used to go to "First Mondays Stripper Set" every month with his guys. It didn't bother me at all. About 6 months into our relationship he stopped going on his own, said he didn't feel the need anymore. Yall know what happened, right? I PUT IT ON HIM! LOL!

That's right girl, cause if you put it on him, he can't quit thinking about the, (ahem), yeah~~~~~that, long enough to make it to the strip club. Tell 'em!

lol - y'all are a mess! lol