Diva's I have a question...my FH has a son, who is 11. I have a son (10) daughter (12) & another daughter who is 6. My 6yr old will be the flower girl. We would like the children to have roles in our wedding as we're becoming one as a family. He would like his son to be one of his best men & I could make my daughter a maid of honor but that leaves my son out...any suggestions on how to make everyone feel equally important?

nicky350 wrote:

Diva's I have a question...my FH has a son, who is 11. I have a son (10) daughter (12) & another daughter who is 6. My 6yr old will be the flower girl. We would like the children to have roles in our wedding as we're becoming one as a family. He would like his son to be one of his best men & I could make my daughter a maid of honor but that leaves my son out...any suggestions on how to make everyone feel equally important?

Would he be willing to let your son join his son as 2 best men. Grooms often have 2 best men & brides often have 2 maids of honor or one maid of honor & then a matron of honor. or you could have your son & your daughter be the jr bride & jr groom or let someone escort them both

I'm sure he would be willing to do that...I also like your idea of the jr bride & groom! You've given me some great ideas! Thank you Bumblebee!

Or maybe your son could somehow share in walking you down the aisle.

Excellent suggestions Bumble, Nicky all the best. Please let us know what you decide.