Hey Ladies ...So here I go with the crazy thoughts. Ok here goes, so hubby sends me a message telling me to have something sexy on along with Love Spell when he gets home. Ok that I have no problem with. Here's where I started thinking way too much and just said forget it! LOLSo you know when we (ladies) get decked out in our best, we're together from head to toe right? Ok so DH gets home late at night (well late to me, bc I'm up early) ...and I just could not decide on should I be sexy head to toe ...like you see on TV/movies minus the make-up ...just wasn't going that far OR ...drum rooooolll ..... go head and tie my hair up in my nightly scraf knowing it will be a mess in a minute ...LOL.I mean really, how many of you ladies get sexy for the hub (or yourself =)) but still thinking you gotta keep the do tight? 

Well since I have an afro I guess I can answer this currently! LOL! But in my perm days I used to go with the mess up - ponytail or slick down (depending on the length) next day. This was only on the "put something special on days." For a "get this starch out my back" session, I always tied my hair up. HTH!

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Diva T...this is me ...me & hubby have a rule...no get it get it on the nights I come home from beauty shop (that's how serious I am about my do-LOL) so I would be there with my sexy on and my scarf--LOL gotta look good for the next day right?!?!?!?

LOL, Tee I love it when your mind gets to thinking.  Me and DH have the same rule as Mrs. J.  If DH persists, he knows my head better not touch the bed and he better not start pulling at it. The moment we slip up, I'll call time out and grab my scarf in a heart beat.

pamcrow wrote:

LOL, Tee I love it when your mind gets to thinking.  Me and DH have the same rule as Mrs. J.  If DH persists, he knows my head better not touch the bed and he better not start pulling at it. The moment we slip up, I'll call time out and grab my scarf in a heart beat.

LOL---I hear ya!

That's what's up! I for sure threw that scarf on. This aint no wash and go stuff here. A sista got too many hours under the dryer to just be repeating that over some Love Spell.

OMG! Too funny. I am so HORNY when I get back from thee Salon. My hair only lasts a hot second. So I think of ways of not letting my head touch the bed if you know what I mean. WE get creative. This is not a concern now anyways cause with these two little busybodies we hardly get to cop a feel.

Rosetta wrote:

OMG! Too funny. I am so HORNY when I get back from thee Salon. My hair only lasts a hot second. So I think of ways of not letting my head touch the bed if you know what I mean. WE get creative. This is not a concern now anyways cause with these two little busybodies we hardly get to cop a feel.

Dang Rosie!!!!!!! LOL

I let it hang loose. (in my perm days), and wobble myself to the mirror and wrap it up afterwards
 
He likes to run his fingers through my hair. Plus my scarf always ALWAYS comes off anyways so I am not trying to have to wrap it up twice....Please don't ask why it comes off girls!...LOL

Yeah Soon ...Rosey did give it us raw right! LMAO I'm to scare ask what could be possibly be about coming back from the hair salon, that gets her juices flowing! LOL Most of us are all dried up from that dang dryer we spent hours under!
 
Naw Bumble ...I won't ask, cause mines be coming off too ....BUT I do get a few minutes of wrap up time. If my hair sweats UNDER the scarf, at least it's still in place, if it sweats without the scarf ...it's a dead issue, you would've thought I was trying to bring a throw back mushroom back in style!

I have long dreadlocks so usually I just let it hang EXCEPT when I just got it retwisted. I just let him know we can do shower activites but dont get my hair wet.LOL

 

pamcrow wrote:

LOL, Tee I love it when your mind gets to thinking.  Me and DH have the same rule as Mrs. J.  If DH persists, he knows my head better not touch the bed and he better not start pulling at it. The moment we slip up, I'll call time out and grab my scarf in a heart beat.

(I meant to quote Pam)
You get a time-out!?! Wow, DH is like-No Time outs no breaks....! I even asked for one, like a pee break, and he was like "hold it"...What a crazy man I married......I actually had to agree to another "favor" so I can take my pee break...!