Hey yall, a friend forwarded me this email and I was able to find the original article.  This is very very interesting and very true.  If you have the time read it and let me know what you think.. http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/8-things-no-one-tells-you-marriage

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Thanks, Soon.  That's an excellent article, and I'm emailing it to hubby. Also, I've been a believer for awhile now that it's O.K. to go to bed angry and wake up with a fresh perspective after I've calmed down. I don't know where that "don't go to bed angry" thing came from. It seems to me that an argument can only get worse if you haven't taken the time to relax your mind.