Dear Ladies,
If you plan on getting married please think more about the future than the ceremony. Lord knows you have been planning your wedding since you were 3, but married life is about more than about throwing a party and worrying about attendees. Worry about you and your husband to be. There is enough pressure as is to not worry about big elaborate ceremonies. If your heart is not in it, be truthful.
Most peoples' wedding vows include commitment till death do us part. If you don't think you have to fortitude for the highs and lows of real life - save yourself the trouble and 2 familes.
The only right thing to do is ammend your vows to say till death do us part or we change our mind. If you do leave him, GIVE HIM THE RING BACK!
King James Bible
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.