hello ladies I have a problem, I work with one of my bridesmaids and a problem has come up. i found out that she has been gossiping about me and one of my other bridesmaids. I have been thinking about asking her to not be in the renewing of my vows but it would really mess up my plans. What would be a good way to handle this situation.
hello ladies I have a problem, I work with one of my bridesmaids and a problem has come up. i found out that she has been gossiping about me and one of my other bridesmaids. I have been thinking about asking her to not be in the renewing of my vows but it would really mess up my plans. What would be a good way to handle this situation.
how would it mess up your plans? It has already strained your friendship. You will only gain peace of mind by confronting her. It may also be a misunderstanding. So find out what's going on. If it's true... toss her!
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I'm with Rosetta--get to the root and deal with the problem do not let it become apart of you
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
thank you ladies for that advice and I did confront her about the situation she claims she was only asking questions and not gossiping about us. I know i won't here the truth so I'm just leaving it in the Lords Hands.
As a christian I try with all my heart to give people the benefit of the doubt but I have a serious problem with her response...that could have been avoided by coming to you "The Bride, Her Friend" for any and/or any clarifications. The Lord said to Love those who use you but He did not say be stupid (not calling you stupid sweety)..this is YOUR wedding day--yours and if any of this makes you uncomfortable in any way shape or form, you need to omit her from your party. This situation is unacceptable and will not and should not be tolerated.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
I agree with the other ladies. I hope that because she was confronted that she will conduct herself in a way that is worthy of your friendship. I wish you all the best!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37