ladies who have already gotten married, were you too tired to get down on your wedding night? Or was it everything we are supposed to think it is? Because if I have enough energy, this is going on and then coming immediately off. haha.
ladies who have already gotten married, were you too tired to get down on your wedding night? Or was it everything we are supposed to think it is? Because if I have enough energy, this is going on and then coming immediately off. haha.
ladies who have already gotten married, were you too tired to get down on your wedding night? Or was it everything we are supposed to think it is? Because if I have enough energy, this is going on and then coming immediately off. haha.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Ok that linferie is HOT! You have the right ide! I was scared outta my mind on my wedding night even though before we went celebate a few months before the wedding we went at it like bunny rabbits for years! lol
I actually locked myself in the bathroom. I think we are all a little virginal on our wedding night. Go figure. We also spend so much time planning the wedding we forget to plan for the best part! That first momemnt you are intimate as man and wife. The wedding night
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Fortunately for me since I am planning basicall the whole wedding by myself FH has opted to take over the task of the wedding night. He says he will have everything under control nd I am leaving it all up to him.....I MEAN EVERYTHIGN! From what I wear to where we stay to the music and what follows.
Ms.Lee I am loving that lingerie (or lingering as FH says).
hahaha... maybe he calls it lingering because it lingers on his mind. I prefer LINGEREE ala Wanda from In Living Color. I LOVE the way she butchers the english language. Champagne was SHAM-PAG-KNEE, a limosine was listerine... In Living Color is still one of the best shows ever on tv...
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Rosey, you be on point with the merchandise... i love you
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
awww shucks! I love that he calls it lingering too, allies! How CUTE is that??? lol. You should still get a surprise stunner just for your honeymoon though. I only had one "outfit" for the wedding night and our honeymoon weas 14 days long! lol.
Start getting that stuff now too. If you have to plan a honeymoon shower to get cool gear than do that too. No shame in our game. lol. You could even assign a new honeymoon wardrobe to a favorite cousin and aunt.
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If you have to plan a honeymoon shower to get cool gear than do that too. No shame in our game.[/quote]
See that is why I love you and this site b/c I have NEVER heard of a honeymoon party and it is the most amazing idea ever that I will be taking for myself. It sounds so fun, and knowing my cousins and their dirty minds its going to turn into something very very raunchy.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Rosey I was talking to my MOH about that last week after reading the shower article. I think it would be fun. Although I may have a few older guest they know what the shower is for. I will have to talk to my grandma about it. If she approves then I will tell MOH its a go.If not then I will probably have 2 diffrent showers.My grandma STILL wears her lingring around the house and she's 71 years old! and she dont care who like it or not.I wanna do that but right now I have a roommate,FH friend, and I can barely wear a pair of shorts or pajamas around the house.
FutureMsLee, love the lingerie! You are going to blow that man's mind!!!!
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SECRET...
He and I make out and stuff BUT we have never *ahem*. We've been together almost 2 years and it hasn't happened for a bunch of reasons. I promised myself 3 years ago that the next person I give my body to will be the man I marry. I'm fortunate b/c he has never pressured me or made me feel bad for us not doing it. Now that we're engaged he is like do we have to be married to get down or is the engagement good enough or what. I don't know. Its not that I haven't ever wanted to... I have, b/c lemme tell u this man is sexy... his body is SICK. I was at one of his b-ball games, he took his shirt off, and my mouth started watering! So I don't know if I should go ahead and do it when I feel it (cuz I swear I will tackle this man) or wait until the wedding night and make it more special.
I stopped doing the do when I realized I wasn't getting ANY pleasure from it at all with the people I was doing it with. They were walking away satisfied and I was left thinking "IS THAT IT?!" So out of disappointment and frustration I promised myself no more until it was the man i was going to marry.
Somebody pray for me! Decisions, decisions.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
You have yourself one special guy!!!!
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Thanks Rhony, he really is a good man.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
[quote="FutureMsLee"]SECRET...
I stopped doing the do when I realized I wasn't getting ANY pleasure from it at all with the people I was doing it with. They were walking away satisfied and I was left thinking "IS THAT IT?!" So out of disappointment and frustration I promised myself no more until it was the man i was going to marry.
Somebody pray for me! Decisions, decisions.
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Girl, I am over here CRACKING UP! YOU ARE SOOOOO CRAZY!!!! Anyway, I pushed my date up. No more you-know-what for FH after New Years Eve. I did say I was abstaining starting 6 months before the wedding, but it's going to be the whole year of 2007 that I'll be no you know what! FH is going to have a FIT one I tell him. It's going to be hard to just STOP after 8 years.
oooh, i can hear him now, "but we already been doin it" or "how about we push the wedding to next weekend" haha. I remember someone saying too bad we all can't get together. I was thinking that would be the craziest most fun brunch or slumber party in the WORLD. Especially if Ms. CharlotteModebe is there. She is hysterical!
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
[quote="SeptBride"]
Girl, I am over here CRACKING UP! YOU ARE SOOOOO CRAZY!!!! Anyway, I pushed my date up. No more you-know-what for FH after New Years Eve. I did say I was abstaining starting 6 months before the wedding, but it's going to be the whole year of 2007 that I'll be no you know what! FH is going to have a FIT one I tell him. It's going to be hard to just STOP after 8 years.
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Don't I know it, my FH is so pitiful -- but he is sooooo cute!
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they are all cute until they get on our nerves
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
where is Charley anyway? I havent seen her in a while....
gr8 question! Ms. Charly needs to get it together and show her face some time this week.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Oh I just had to get in on this one!
More power to you who are abstaining, my husband and I did so for what seemed like FOREVER before the wedding night and it was torture...esp since we lived together at the time and we had a really explosive sex life. But I must say, it was worth the sacrifice! There is truly something special abt the first time u come together as husband and wife.
Now as for the night itself, I was sooo tired so we initially just cuddled and i ended up falling asleep much to his dismay. But thanx to the complimentary champagne and fruit tray from the hotel, my batteries were recharged at abt 2am and it was on like popcorn...just pure debauchery I tell ya..lol.
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taunyana, girl, I am cracking up - on like popcorn - lol too funny.
Taunyana!!! Hilarious, that is just too funny. Fruit & champagne will definitely recharge your battery!!!
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I was grateful for the fruit and champagne!!
And thats a nice tip for the wedding night, many brides don't really grubb down at the reception so find out if your venue will box up your leftovers and y'all can have a nice late nite picnic in your suite. Also, have some snacks handy cuz you WILL work up an appetite that night.
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taunya you are hilarious... i was over here dying! Sunday nite we almost broke the vow but we held strong, he held me and we lit a candle and we prayed together for us to always remember why we're waiting and for the strength to resist the fleshly temptation - and lawd its tempting.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
I'm abstaining too! I put Curt on a diet until he paints my damn kitchen!
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
[quote="taunyana"]I was grateful for the fruit and champagne!!
And thats a nice tip for the wedding night, many brides don't really grubb down at the reception so find out if your venue will box up your leftovers and y'all can have a nice late nite picnic in your suite. Also, have some snacks handy cuz you WILL work up an appetite that night.
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Excellent tip Taunyana! Thanks.
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[quote="phenomonique"]I'm abstaining too! I put Curt on a diet until he paints my damn kitchen!
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HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! OMG Niquey you are too much!!!!
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I appluad all you ladies for doing without. I seen my FH for the first time about a month ago and I was about to explode. I had to play it off. He thought I had been messing around on him. We haven't seen each other since October of last year. We agreed that after Jan 07 we aren't going to have relations until the wedding nights the it is on like HOT BUTTERED POPCORN. I have found atleast two my outfits for the night vibride mall. That is crazy I founf my wedding night attire before I find they day attire.LOLBold TextBold TextUnderlined Text
Southerngirl.....
Ya'll is CRAZY! lol I added seduction wear and bridal lingerie to the mall. It is scorching hot but tastful too so grandmas won't have a coronary when it is unveiled at a shower.
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[quote="taunyana"]O my batteries were recharged at abt 2am and it was on like popcorn...just pure debauchery I tell ya..lol.
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You are a beacon in the dark! lol. Do your thing girl!
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Hi Rosetta,
I hadn't even gone to that site. I just went there I am loving the secretary outfit. I think I am going to order that for I our reunion in Jan it will have been a year and 3 months since our last relations.I picked the Wild flower gwon set and the bridal g-string w/the train. I really like that.........
Southerngirl.....
Love the seduction wear Rosetta!!!!!!
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I am so loving all of this Rosey. You got me thiking more and more about a lingering shower. I can give all the ladies the web address.
You all are too funny. I can't wait to finalize a date so we can begin the wait. There is something about smoldering with want from your mate. I'm checkin the mall too. Sounds nice
Too funny ladies! Love the bridal lingerie Rosie!
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You know, I have been so caught up in the planning of the wedding day that I haven't even thought about what is going to happen on the wedding night. I THINK I'M AFRAID! I think he will want to go places no one has ever been before. Now I'm back in reality. I don't know if we'll be able to abstain for more than two weeks before the wedding, lol. That is so sad. I commend all of you women on here with the willpower to lock it up, CLANK CLANK!!! You go girls.
LOl Kariba you are too funny! I bet he will surprise you. And when you wait it is so much more intense! It is so much better than the first time! Also you wear white and KNOW that it means something extra special to you and your new Hubby.
Maybe just get cut.0e, sexy things for everyday wear under your clothes.
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[quote="Kariba"] I THINK I'M AFRAID! I think he will want to go places no one has ever been before.
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GYRL! YOU AND ME BOTH! I dont know what my FH has planned for that night. We were talking about some things a while ago and he brought up unknown places and I kinda freaked out. I wasnt ready for that and I hope he dont think I will be ready then either.