Y'ALL STUUPID!!!
I'm with you wifey. I wld wup me some ass! But for her she needs to now concentrate on herself and what she wants. When we as women get involved in relationships, we lose some of ourselves. Tell her to try to put him aside for a min and figure out what she can do to make her life better. She may find after the retrospective into herself, she don't really want,like or need him!
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Anyway, to be honest with you guys I'm SICK & TIRED of talking to her tail! No matter what I say, it's always but I love him! Then DAMMIT don't ask me for my opinion! Just the other day, he told her that he wasn't moving with her, then he tells her on Sat. that he is. She's getting to act really stupid. All he's doing is pulling her strings and she allowing it to happen. Hell, she's getting what she's asking for. Y'all I'm really, really getting sick of her!
I understan fully what you are saying, but it is simple from where you are standing. When you are in a relationship sometimes you dont see things as clearly as others, or do want to accept reality. I know it is getting aggrevationg but you have to help her get through this.
House, what else can I do? It's been 3 1/2 months that he's been walking ALL over her and she's allowing it to happen. So, why cry about it. The ball is in her court and she keeps handing it to him. She even called him and found out he was at the other woman's house! Time after time he's disrespecting her and she just sits there like a bump on a log. Girl, pray for me while y'all are praying are her becuase LAWD HAMMERSY, I NEED IT!!!
I think your friend, doesn't really realize her worth. We as women are constantly trying to revive a relationship that is simply dead. We always say tell me the truth, but in most cases we don;t except the truth. Your friend will have to hit rock bottom and decide enough is enough. Your job is to simply be her friend. I know it's a tough situation to be in, but she needs someone in her corner when she has light bulb moment and believe me she will. We all have been in relationships that we may have had a hard excepting that it was over. I will continue to pray for her and that God gets her attention and deals with her accordingly. Sometimes it's best just to listen even when people ask for advice. She needs to love herself as much as she loves her husband and her marriage. Give herself that same love
Y'ALL STUUPID!!!
I'm with you wifey. I wld wup me some ass! But for her she needs to now concentrate on herself and what she wants. When we as women get involved in relationships, we lose some of ourselves. Tell her to try to put him aside for a min and figure out what she can do to make her life better. She may find after the retrospective into herself, she don't really want,like or need him!
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GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME; ALL THE TIME GOD IS GOOD. WHEN IN DOUBT, PRAY
Exactly, and I bet when she does do that, he will be right back chasing after her.
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Askalot, are you still in the corner?
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Girl, yes, I just got out! lol
Anyway, to be honest with you guys I'm SICK & TIRED of talking to her tail! No matter what I say, it's always but I love him! Then DAMMIT don't ask me for my opinion! Just the other day, he told her that he wasn't moving with her, then he tells her on Sat. that he is. She's getting to act really stupid. All he's doing is pulling her strings and she allowing it to happen. Hell, she's getting what she's asking for. Y'all I'm really, really getting sick of her!
I understan fully what you are saying, but it is simple from where you are standing. When you are in a relationship sometimes you dont see things as clearly as others, or do want to accept reality. I know it is getting aggrevationg but you have to help her get through this.
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House, what else can I do? It's been 3 1/2 months that he's been walking ALL over her and she's allowing it to happen. So, why cry about it. The ball is in her court and she keeps handing it to him. She even called him and found out he was at the other woman's house! Time after time he's disrespecting her and she just sits there like a bump on a log. Girl, pray for me while y'all are praying are her becuase LAWD HAMMERSY, I NEED IT!!!
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I think your friend, doesn't really realize her worth. We as women are constantly trying to revive a relationship that is simply dead. We always say tell me the truth, but in most cases we don;t except the truth. Your friend will have to hit rock bottom and decide enough is enough. Your job is to simply be her friend. I know it's a tough situation to be in, but she needs someone in her corner when she has light bulb moment and believe me she will. We all have been in relationships that we may have had a hard excepting that it was over. I will continue to pray for her and that God gets her attention and deals with her accordingly. Sometimes it's best just to listen even when people ask for advice. She needs to love herself as much as she loves her husband and her marriage. Give herself that same love
Oooooooooooooooo-tay, I'll continue to listen! I'll just keep all of my true thoughts in my head.
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