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Brunch the Day After

Ladies,
We're planning on having a brunch and gift opening party at my father's house the day after the wedding. Exactly who should be invited to this? I'm thinking of immediate family and close friends that have traveled from out of town, but I just don't want it to be too big. If anyone did this, knows someone who did, etc. please send your suggestions.

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Brunch the Day After

Ladies,
We're planning on having a brunch and gift opening party at my father's house the day after the wedding. Exactly who should be invited to this? I'm thinking of immediate family and close friends that have traveled from out of town, but I just don't want it to be too big. If anyone did this, knows someone who did, etc. please send your suggestions.

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I love this idea Hampton! My brother and SIL did this and theirs was really informal, it was open to all who wanted to attend but most guests declined so it ended up being a family thing. We all pitched in and made sandwiches and other picnic type foods and just stretched out in the middle of their living room.
I think the execution will depend largely on your vision, I highly suggest somthing a little less formal to give you a chance to chill and catch your breath. And as much as possible, girl, DELEGATE! My SIL had me catering to her every whim that next day...lol
All the best to you as you continue planning.

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Re: Brunch the Day After

[quote="hampton_s"]Ladies,
We're planning on having a brunch and gift opening party at my father's house the day after the wedding. Exactly who should be invited to this? I'm thinking of immediate family and close friends that have traveled from out of town, but I just don't want it to be too big. If anyone did this, knows someone who did, etc. please send your suggestions.
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this is a great idea. my cousins husbands family gave a bbq for us the day after their wedding. It was our first time meeting anyone from his family. We are all from California and my cuz moved to Saint Louis to be with him. They gave a bbq for us to meet the rest of the immediate family. it was a really nice gesture.

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I highly suggest somthing a little less formal to give you a chance to chill and catch your breath. [/quote]

I totally agree you should do it informal. This should be your day to relax and just remininsce on what just happened. I wouldn't really invite anyone except immediate family and my bestes of friends so I will have someone to laugh with about some of the weird gifts you get.......

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Informal is the way to go. It is completely up to you who you want to attend. Good luck & keep us posted.

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We are having the same thing and it will be basically the same people who attended the rehearsal dinner: bridal party and out of town guests. I don't anticipate too many people because hopefully we will have worn them out from the previous night!

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I think it would be ok to invite out-of-town guests and immediate family. I don't think anyone would be upset if you did that.